Saturday, March 7, 2015

Giving Unconditionally - Make it a Habit...

Back in December, my blog talked about THE HAPPINESS FOUNDATION (your POSITIVE MINDSET), as being a key Component of Networking Success... In it, we identified "Giving Unconditionally" as being critical in MAINTAINING that Positive Mindset. Let's elaborate...

The Effects Unconditional Giving has on Others
Many people approach Networking Events hoping to RECEIVE and totally forget about GIVING... That approach rarely works and if it does, it is usually short lived. Others are willing to GIVE you something EXPECTING you to do something for them in return. Again, any success will be short lived using that approach too. Win-Win is NOT about keeping score...

A Win-Win Relationship IS likely to develop over a period of time when two people have a genuine interest in getting to know each other and helping each other out. The magic words are "How Can I Help You?", assuming they are 100% SINCERE...

Think about it: how do you feel when someone does something nice for you out of the blue? How do you think it makes others feel when you do nice things to them out of the blue? Great, right? Unexpected acts of kindness are almost always APPRECIATED and REMEMBERED.

Networking is The Process of Developing Win-Win Relationships. Win-Win Relationships occur ONLY when people LIKE and TRUST one another. A great way way to achieve both like and trust is to get into the HABIT of being an Unconditional Giver. In doing so, other Unconditional Givers will gravitate to you and great things will happen to all - it's the positive Law of Attraction in action.

The Feeling of Giving Unconditionally
Giving Unconditionally IS Win-Win. Obviously, the person on the receiving end feels appreciation and gratitude, but the GIVER feels awesome too. How do YOU feel when you give unconditionally? Most likely at least as good as when you are on the receiving end, right? Does it feed your Positive Mindset? Does it make you want to give even more?

Make "Unconditional Giving" a habit starting today. Look for reasons to compliment or do something nice for someone just because... Do this a couple times or more every day for 21 days and you have a new habit that will change your life (as well as those you touch). You will also maintain your HAPPINESS FOUNDATION (that Positive Mindset)...

HAVE FUN with this and HAPPY SPRING (almost)!!

Chip, the Happiness and Success GPS for one's LIFE and one's CAREER, is a speaker, trainer, facilitator, consultant (business and personal) and a NETWORKING EXPERT. Everything I do is customized for the group or business I that am working with so let's brainstorm!

My PURPOSE and MISSION is to spread AWARENESS to everyone that they have the CHOICE (a gift given only to human beings) to ESCAPE from "SAMEVILLE" (the day to day routines many CHOOSE to get stuck in citing OUTSIDE INFLUENCES they have no control over) and CHOOSE instead to build a happy and successful life. I LOVE speaking to groups (including students) about this. If you have a suggestion for a group for me to present to, let's talk about it -
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