There is so much information available now, it’s amazing
that our heads don’t explode on a daily basis. For almost anything you want to
learn about you can find sources of information in multiple formats, including
books, magazines, research studies, and videos. Most of it is available at your
fingertips through the Internet. There is more information available now than
at any other time in history, and the democratic distribution of it through
technology is turning the notion of expertise on its head, as lay people have access
to the same information as the specialists. But as amazing as technology is at
leveling the playing field and providing vast amounts of information to any
anyone who seeks it, technology cannot fully take the place of face-to-face
interaction. To rely solely on data and to miss out on human interaction is a
mistake that can blow your mind.
Doing research online is a one-way conversation. You can
quickly fall down a rabbit hole by clicking link after link. You may be
gathering lots of information, but it can be a challenge to figure out what
pieces of data are important for your needs, and which are distractions. Any
question you ask Google will return dozens, if not hundreds, of hits. Most of
them will not be relevant for you, yet you’ll have to figure out which are
meaningful on your own. This type of research is important when you need to
learn about a health-related issue, but at some point you’ll have to pull away
from the online information trove and speak about your needs to a real person. Not
moving forward to the face-to-face interaction phase can be an avoidance
technique that can keep you from getting the help you need. In the case of a
serious illness, like cancer, this can be costly indeed.
If you want to get really scared by learning about
worst-case scenarios, go look up a health problem on the Internet. Have you
ever done a search, clicked on a link that sounded promising, and were
horrified by what popped up? There is no way to prescreen what will appear on
your computer monitor when you click that link. Sometimes the information is
helpful, but sometimes it will inspire fear that can immobilize you from taking
action. Having someone to talk to about what you’re finding in your research
can give much needed perspective. Whether you are participating in a class, a
support group, or meeting one-on-one with someone who can help you navigate
your healthcare needs, discussing what you are learning with other people can
be a helpful, and necessary, reality check.
It’s easy to get caught up in believing you need to know
everything you can in order to make a good healthcare decision. The insurance
industry and healthcare industry both push for patients to be informed
consumers of healthcare, but how much information is enough? The fact is, you
won’t be able to know as much as your doctor knows about certain things unless
you go to medical school, too. That’s why we rely on doctors, after all. You
need to know enough to have a knowledgeable conversation about the options
available to you, and the risks and benefits of the various options. Once you
have that basis of knowledge, you need to seek out the people who can help you
implement a plan of action. That means interviewing doctors and having
conversations with people in the real world.
It all comes down to relationships. Healthcare is better
when it’s provided by people you know, like, and trust. That trust comes from
person-to-person interaction. The same way that internet searches link you from
one piece of information to another, each person you meet connects you to others
to find the support you need. At the same time the volume of information
available has grown, the number of people who have expertise in sorting through
that information has grown too. You don’t have to figure it out alone. Once you
have some basic knowledge under your belt, your time can be used more
effectively by talking with people who can guide you to your next step.
Keep your head about you by balancing online research with
real-world interactions. Get out from behind your computer and talk to people!
Michal Klau-Stevens is a professional
speaker and healthcare consumer advocate. She is a pregnancy
coach and expert on consumer healthcare care issues, Past President of
BirthNetwork National, a Lamaze Certified Childbirth Educator, and mother. Her website is TheBirthLady.INFO. Find her on LinkedIn and on Facebook at The Birth Lady page!
Good article, Michal. You're right. It does come down to relationships.
ReplyDeleteAgreed, too much information can be almost as bad as too little. And if we are sorting through information for our own conditions, emotions will color our perceptions. The Internet, books, and articles can be helpful to an extent, but they cannot replace human relationships.
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