December - the Holiday
Season - a time for giving gifts... Material gifts - charitable gifts - gifts
of one's self (volunteering)...
The "Holiday
Tradition" is buying material gifts for family and friends. The holiday
"shopping season" seems to start earlier every year and the ads seem
to be more and more relentless: The day after Thanksgiving is "Black
Friday" (of course the "savings" start being hyped WEEKS before
and last well beyond). Three days later is "Cyber Monday" (e-commerce
needs to get in on the savings hype too). Material gift giving is nice but the
intent, fun, and satisfaction in doing so have long been overwhelmed by
materialism, often leaving gift "giving" a source of
"stress"...
Other forms of giving
that are truly in the holiday spirit include charitable giving and volunteering
to help people in need and the organizations that support them.
On of my favorite sayings is "Smile and laugh more: it will keep the Energy Vampires away." Energy Vampires are those who darken the mood any room they walk in to by constantly complaining, blaming, gossiping and judging... The good news is Energy Vampires can not survive in an atmosphere of happiness - they either magically change their attitude to fit in or they disappear altogether...
On of my favorite sayings is "Smile and laugh more: it will keep the Energy Vampires away." Energy Vampires are those who darken the mood any room they walk in to by constantly complaining, blaming, gossiping and judging... The good news is Energy Vampires can not survive in an atmosphere of happiness - they either magically change their attitude to fit in or they disappear altogether...
Radical idea: Give the gift of JOY this
Holiday Season and beyond! Start with yourself. SMILE RIGHT NOW while you
read this! Do it (in a mirror if it is handy) for 10 seconds, 20 seconds, 30
seconds, a minute, whatever. Now, how do you feel? Putting things into
perspective, it's absolutely impossible not to feel better when you smile. So
congratulations - you have just given yourself the gift of JOY! Now it's time
to spread it and it is sooooooo easy to do now that you have discovered how to
give this wonderful gift to yourself...
FOOD FOR THOUGHT: SPREAD
JOY and SLAY THE VAMPIRE
Always have a smile on
your face with everyone you are with: family, friends, co-workers, and even
Energy Vampires... Smile at strangers you see in the grocery store, on the
street, wherever... You most likely will receive a smile in return because
SMILING IS CONTAGIOUS! Even if they don't smile back, you will have had a
positive impact. You CAN bring "Joy To The World" one smile, one
person at a time, starting with you... Let's make it a MOVEMENT and spread it
around the world - SMILE!!!
THANKS FOR GIVING the
GIFT of JOY - HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!!
ABOUT CHIP:
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Great article, Chip. We all need to smile more.
ReplyDeleteAs usual, I can't get through one of your posts without smiling, whether you say to or not. Great way to start the morning.
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