Let’s start answering the
question by crossing off a few things your readers don’t want… They don’t really want
to know about your children or your pets. They don’t want to know what you had
for dinner last night. And they don’t want to know about your new shoes, car,
or laundry detergent. (The obvious exception is when one of those subjects is
your specialty.)
You might think that sounds harsh
because there is a whole school of thought that talks about building
relationships, and building relationships includes divulging information
about yourself to entice someone to want to know more. That’s the perfect
course of action for building personal relationships, but when it comes to
establishing a relationship with people you hope to inform, educate, inspire, and
encourage, starting out by talking about yourself is akin to telling someone
you love them on the first date – TMI!
When it comes to enticing readers
to read your words of wisdom, your first job is to let them know you understand
where they’re coming from. In many ways your words are like a map. The
challenge is to make sure your directions start from where they are standing—not where
you are standing.
Your next goal should be to break
down your information into groups of digestible information and action steps. It’s
easy to be so excited with what you’ve learned and accomplished that you want
to share all of it at once. Again – TMI. If the journey looks too long, difficult,
or filled with obstacles, people might be inspired enough to start, but they will
fall away quickly because it’s just too much for them to do, think, and feel
all at once. Think “baby steps” in the beginning to build momentum.
People want what you have to
offer. It’s just a different landscape these days that requires an awareness of
how little time you have to make an impression on a potential reader. Don’t
waste those precious seconds. Use them wisely by sharing something that lets
your reader know you can help them. Do a good job making that point and they
will definitely crave more.
Valerie:
ReplyDeleteThankfully you have the experience and passion that helps people understand the process.
Valerie:
ReplyDeleteThankfully you have the experience and passion that helps people understand the process.